Dear Herb, I'm very sorry to hear what's happened to yourself and Lyn, and I really feel for you.
I don't know what I can say to help ease the loss, that others haven't already said or will be saying to you soon.
But it sounds to me like you already appreciate something about all of this that can help:
Herbylyn said... I am so proud to have been part of her life.
You're absolutely right about that.
From the sound of it Lyn was a good 'un, and with all the waterskiing and windsurfing, a spunky one at that. To every guy who sails, a woman with traits like that makes her an instant "10". So she would have had her pick of the litter.
And out of every other guy out there, she picked you to spend her life with.
You have plenty to be proud of.
That you can appreciate that right now and are grateful for it I think shows that firstly, you're on the right track to getting through all of this, and that secondly, she was right to pick you.
The other thing is that, in addition to your own family, you also have something of an extended family of speedsailors here who care about you and will be doing what they can to look out for you, and to look after you.
No bad thing, and from the sound of it, something that hasn't come to you unearned.
Hooray for Lyn, a good 'un who lived a good life, and had the good sense to latch onto Herb.