The worst day of my life

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Herbylyn
Herbylyn
QLD
214 posts
QLD, 214 posts
7 Dec 2012 10:01pm
The worst dayof my life....Lyn needs your help!!
Yesterday morning I could not wake Lyn, after a listless day she had a troubled night with high pulse and temperature. When I couldn't rouse her I got onto 000 and they took her to Atherton Hospital. I went in shortly and they had her in ICU and Doc said she was very ill and probably Meningitis. They had induced her into a coma and had ventilator down throat and a miriad of tubes etc. Shortly after she was transferred by chopper to Cairns base hosp. I drove down to Cairns and they were continuing with tests etc.
I stayed the night with Bob Franklyn and this morning they had inserted tubes into her legs. By 11.30am they had her on dialyses machine because her kidneys had given up. I notified her family that things were desperate and they should come.
I was able to talk to many Docs, but none could put there finger on the sepsis she is suffering. Everyone was extremely interested and all wanted to help, but it was always "we will just have to wait and continue testing. At 4pm the staff wanted to roll her over an rub her back etc. when yet another specialist turned up to have a look. I left and came down to Bob's and just arrived when this Dr rang and told me that she has a diseased heart valve and they were preparing her for a plane to Townsville and could I come and see her before the trip. Naturally I went back up and by 8pm she would be airborne and probably have open heart surgery tonight. Her son is flying to Cairns tonight and we will drive to Townsville overnight.
Lyn and I have been soul mates for nigh on 40 years. She was always a keen sportsgirl, competent water skier and 25 yrs a windsurfer. The best thing that happened to me was when Lyn came into my life. (now with all this I feel a bit betrayed) . She has many friends among you and now she really needs your support/ best wishes/ prayers. Any help will be appreciated.
izaak
izaak
TAS
2013 posts
TAS, 2013 posts
7 Dec 2012 11:39pm
All the best wishes from the Perkins family. You and lyn are a true inspiration for us to keep on windsurfing. You and lyn's drive to be in the water every day and both still getting pb's is unreal. The best of luck and we are thinking of you! None of you deserve this at all!! Stay positive mate
hardie
hardie
WA
4133 posts
WA, 4133 posts
7 Dec 2012 9:41pm
Very sad to hear Herb, Lyn has been an inspiration in windsurfing, and it was always fantastic to see her get PB's!! You guyz were among the first to support the GTC, and I know many people in the GTC have very fond feelings about yourself and Lyn.

Please let us know if there is anything specific anyone can do do help?
elmo
elmo
WA
8890 posts
WA, 8890 posts
7 Dec 2012 11:08pm
Thoughts are with you Herb and Lyn
Windxtasy
Windxtasy
WA
4019 posts
WA, 4019 posts
7 Dec 2012 11:45pm
Dear Herb, I am sorry to hear your sad news. What a terrible shock for you. Thankyou for sharing your pain with us. It is good to know you feel you are among friends here.
I had a friend go through a similar experience (as Lyn) a few years ago. He was in intensive care for some weeks but made a full recovery. Don't give up.
May God bless you both and bring you peace and healing.
With love, Anita
S018
S018
SA
338 posts
SA, 338 posts
8 Dec 2012 3:03am
Sad news Herb.. all the best to Lyn and hope the experts can find out what is wrong and get Lyn back on track.
our thoughts are with you
and our prayers are for Lyn
hope she bounces back and is out on the water again
Dave and Gloria
Rossx
Rossx
QLD
55 posts
QLD, 55 posts
8 Dec 2012 5:00am
Herby mate, I know all of us here are feeling utter shock at your news. We are all thinking of you both and pray that Lyn can get through this. Anything I can do please just ask. Take care and give our love to Lyn when you see her. Have strength my friend
YP1
YP1
SA
136 posts
YP1 YP1
SA, 136 posts
8 Dec 2012 8:00am
Gee I have been with my soul mate >30years and found your post gut wrenching, heart breaking, that is devistating news, what if that happend to me.

God Bless & We pray for a speedie recovery

Richard & Leanne
fitz66
fitz66
QLD
575 posts
QLD, 575 posts
8 Dec 2012 7:45am
That is terrible news Herby, it amazing what the surgeons can do these days. Love and positive energy to you and Lyn from all of us down here.
Hoppybob
Hoppybob
QLD
6 posts
QLD, 6 posts
8 Dec 2012 10:28am
Herb and family arrived Townsville 6am this morning. Lyn's condition has improved slightly overnight and the doctors are going to pospone the operation for a day or two, expecting her to get stronger for the surgery. Lyn is one strong lady....I think we will be saying " Herb and Lyn " for a few more years yet.
mineral1
mineral1
WA
4564 posts
WA, 4564 posts
8 Dec 2012 9:35am


Herb and Hoppy, for Lyn when she is fit enough to look and get a laugh.
As Mark indicated, all best wishes and thoughts from the Pinnaroo mob.
Glad to see she has improved over night. Keep us all up to speed.
(image taken from Gorgo upload)
Mike n Joan
evets
evets
WA
685 posts
WA, 685 posts
9 Dec 2012 8:49am
Hi Herb, so sorry to hear about you both going through this. My wife and I send our best wishes to you both. I love following your posts and your continued progression of PBs but more importantly the way you treasure every day.
Steve
Rowdy Rosey
Rowdy Rosey
QLD
16 posts
QLD, 16 posts
9 Dec 2012 4:10pm
Terrible news Herb. Your in good hands in Townsville, my dad had a quad bypass last year and the crew there were awesome.The family and i are sending all good vibes / love and prayers to you and Lyn. I will make sure the kids say a special prayer for you two tonight when they go to bed. If there is anything we can do for you let us know.

Just spoke with Simmo and he has also asked that i send on his families prayers to Lyn and yourself.

Love from
Paul, Marie, Eryn, Erika and Kai
Darren, Adrian, Emma and Kayla
ka43
ka43
NSW
3101 posts
NSW, 3101 posts
9 Dec 2012 5:34pm
Sad news Herbie, all us Roaches are sending you our best wishes for a speedy recovery!!!
Hoppybob
Hoppybob
QLD
6 posts
QLD, 6 posts
9 Dec 2012 6:34pm
UPDATE ON LYN

Herb rang and said Lyn was operated on from 11:30 am to 5 pm today replacing the faulty valve with a metal one. The doctor said all went well and that he felt she has a good chance of recovering.
LongTimeAgo
LongTimeAgo
NSW
106 posts
NSW, 106 posts
9 Dec 2012 8:55pm
Herb I wish you & Lyn all the very best. I'm only new here but from the responses, you both have great respect from the members
mineral1
mineral1
WA
4564 posts
WA, 4564 posts
9 Dec 2012 6:38pm
Good news Hoppy. Pass on our best again as she recovers.
Mike n Joan
firiebob
firiebob
WA
3182 posts
WA, 3182 posts
9 Dec 2012 6:49pm
Great news Hoppy, we're so happy and relieved all good so far, I have a positive feeling Lyn will be A-OK

Herb I talked to Bob and it sounds the same as what happened to my cousin earlier this year, he has bounced back as good as gold.
T 11
T 11
TAS
811 posts
TAS, 811 posts
9 Dec 2012 10:46pm
Thats great stuff Herby the inspiration you and Lyn give the whole GPSTC is impossible to put in words. We always look forward to your posts and feel like we are 'Living The Dream' with you. Wishing Lyn and you all the best for a full recovery.
Ian (Johno) and your Southern windsurfing family Tassie Speed Seekers.
moondo
moondo
VIC
134 posts
VIC, 134 posts
9 Dec 2012 10:52pm
Hi Herby and Lyn,
We wish Lyn a speedy recovery.
All the best for you both
From The Southerly Busters GPSTC Team!
alfamale
alfamale
QLD
138 posts
QLD, 138 posts
9 Dec 2012 10:22pm
Geez Herb, sorry to hear this and hope everything pans out well for you and Lyn.
Best wishes from all of us here at Surf Fx.
Michael
greenleader
greenleader
QLD
5283 posts
QLD, 5283 posts
10 Dec 2012 12:31am
That's a big vote for Lyn's speedy recovery from me too Herb! our thoughts are with you both. ian
Herbylyn
Herbylyn
QLD
214 posts
QLD, 214 posts
10 Dec 2012 10:53am

I,m overwhelmed by your responses, what a wonderful team of people. I will keep you all updated. just hope Lyn can beat it and one day I can show her.
At 7am this morning the ICU crew said she is holding her own, but still critical.
Haggar
Haggar
QLD
1670 posts
QLD, 1670 posts
10 Dec 2012 7:05pm
Great to hear that the Lyns op was a success, all the best for a continued recovery Herb
Herbylyn
Herbylyn
QLD
214 posts
QLD, 214 posts
11 Dec 2012 2:40am


Rest in Peace About 5.30 pm yesterday Lyn lost her battle.

I held her hand while she peacefully slipped away forever. I am so proud to have been part of her life.

choco
choco
SA
4181 posts
SA, 4181 posts
11 Dec 2012 8:00am
Thoughts go out to you Herb, sorry to hear the news
LongTimeAgo
LongTimeAgo
NSW
106 posts
NSW, 106 posts
11 Dec 2012 8:41am
SO sad to hear the news Herb, hard to find the words to comfort you. These things are out of anybodies control, try to stay strong. All our prayers are with you & family.
Alewi62
Alewi62
QLD
158 posts
QLD, 158 posts
11 Dec 2012 7:49am
Our thoughts are with you Herb
Those we love don't go away
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.
Greg and Anne

shear tip
shear tip
NSW
1125 posts
NSW, 1125 posts
11 Dec 2012 9:12am
Oh Herb, I'm so sorry.
mineral1
mineral1
WA
4564 posts
WA, 4564 posts
11 Dec 2012 7:55am
Hard to put in words how we both feel. Had a quite time late yesterday when we received the sad news. Both of us feel privileged to have met, yarned and laughed with you and Lyn as mates.
Thoughts and prayers with you during this sad period
Mike n Joan
hardie
hardie
WA
4133 posts
WA, 4133 posts
11 Dec 2012 7:57am
Tragic, so sorry to hear!!
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