stribo said...
(...) everybody dies.You cannot control how or when. When it's your turn , it's your turn...game over. (...) Someone dies in a car nearly every day...
Accidents happen.
I think assessing the conditions to your ability
Hard to believe you're serious. You can control much of your life, bar acts of God. I don't go out in storms and lightning, so I never got in trouble (27 years, on 3 continents in all waters). I don't freestyle when alone or far from people, just in case. I don't venture on offshore winds if I don't have the equipment and a plan to make it back. I get information on currents and conditions in new venues.
And so on. Conversely, I know people that get caught offshore, or have stupid accidents on a yearly basis. I think they think like you - "not my fault".
Accidents happen... more often to those who think everything just happens to them. There's a great episode of "Trailer Park Boys" where masturbating 'happened to him'. He made a song about it, with the words: "it could happen to you 'coz it happened to me".
Disclaimer: we still don't know what happened to that guy at the Gorge. And I never wore a helmet in spite of forward loops and backflips on a longboard.