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matt18
matt18
VIC
534 posts
VIC, 534 posts
17 Jul 2012 4:54pm
Wavewidow said...

I am a wife of a surfer and the mother of a surfer and yesterday when my husband said he was going to check the surf and might go out for a quick one my heart stopped and I wanted to scream dont go!!! But I didnt An hour later, the sound of his car in the drive way was one of the sweetest sounds I have heard in along time. I get you guys love the water. The waves, everything about the ocean I see surfers 6 days a week I am married to a shaper but please please please try and see it from our point of view. We love you just as much and whats happening is just to close to home


I get the same thing when my wife takes the kids up to her parents place up the hume hw. Great to see them safely home from their long drive. Puts a big smile on ya face.
Hamsta
Hamsta
505 posts
505 posts
17 Jul 2012 4:43pm
FFS. People die every phucking day from a multitude of causes. Because a shark kills someone, there is this misplaced and frankly quite insincere outpouring of condolences. A person got eaten by a shark. A person most likely will die in hospital from cancer today, maybe ten people. A baby will be stillborn, an elderly person will pass away in a nursing home and so on and so forth. But gee, those deaths dont warrant a mention on the FRONT PAGE of the newspaper or the 6.00 news.

I hope most people have enough smarts to work out why these things don't make the front page or nightly news.Better hide somewhere safe because the sky is falling.


Death is inevitable, that doesn't make it any easier on anyone when it happens, regardless of HOW it happens.

You enter the ocean, you accept the risk. Not rocket science people.

And Suba, that wasn't even funny, even as an attempt at dark humour.
Alejandro
Alejandro
WA
12 posts
WA, 12 posts
17 Jul 2012 6:41pm
wow, range of answers here...

Dangers exist in all areas of life, and if you start worrying about one thing (surfing) you might as well worry about the other things (car crash, choking on food, getting run over, etc). But if you do that, then you will either live your life in a continual state of fear, or you will try to stop your kids/partner from doing anything they have ever enjoyed in life. It absolutely sucks when you say goodbye to someone and wonder "what if something happens and they never come back?", so the only thing I can suggest that probably wont make any difference at all is to always remember to tell them you love them. Because if something did happen, those final few moments will matter the most.

(and I have to admit, I found subas pictures farkin funny. I think I will save that to show my friends later)
jbshack
jbshack
WA
6913 posts
WA, 6913 posts
18 Jul 2012 11:42am
My wife and kids are driving o Albany today and i feel uneasy. Cant wait till they call me there all good

Life happens people.
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