Gday Jeff,
Glad to hear you're keen to get on the water. Its looking like it should be a good summer. We have a stack of good places to sail around the Hunter.
Best place to start would be to give the guys at Kite and SUP a call:
www.kiteandsup.com.au/They have a shop in Warners Bay which is mainly Kites and SUP, but they also do windsurfing lessons and can get gear in for you. They usually run their lessons at Marmong Point or Warners Bay. Their instructors are excellent and they provide all the gear.
People on the lake mostly sail at Valentine, Coal Point, Marmong Point, Belmont Slips (near 18 footers), Swansea and down south at Shingle-splitters point (near morriset).
We have a club on the water at Marmong Point (George St) where we get together every Saturday afternoon and race Formula (light wind) or slalom (stronger wind), and also have beginner gear.
Your ute will be perfect to carry your gear around.
Feel free to PM me if you need any other info. See you on the water.