I don't think surfing has lost its soul. I think more people are surfing and their are way to many grumpy, over self righteous twits in the water that think they own the sport or the break, but those people never got the idea in the first place IMHO.
Having said that, i don't often let them bother me

I often wish i could get it out of my system. I feel the total frustration building after being out of the water for too long and usually i get the stink eye from the family, that i need to go surfing its like my re-charge