If you apply common sense the sport is self regulating similar to sailing, windsurfing, surfing and a myriad of other water and non-water sports. Those common sense approaches and general rules of the water should be more than enough to avoid any problems at your local and allow you to sort out most if not all problems. A basic laundry list is as follows:
* Stay well away from beginners and give them the room they need to enjoy a stress free session.
* Do not launch or land in an area where you may endanger the public if something goes wrong.
* Do not boost upwind of kiters unless you have ample room to land and if something goes wrong you don't endanger other riders.
* Kiter on starboard tack has right of way unless launching off the beach then kiter heading out has right of way.
* After launching get out of the lunch area as quickly as possible.
* Don't stand around on the beach having a conversation with your kite in the air while others are trying to go out and come in.
* After landing ensure your lines are well taken care of and don't clog up the launch area.
* If the launch area is small pack up one kite before setting up another.
* Don't short tack other kiters.
* If kiting at an unfamiliar spot respect the kiters who kite there regularly and the fact that your actions if disrespectful or dangerous may cost them their sport if they are banned because of your actions.
* If you have an issue with someone or a group of people sort it out there and then in a positive, respectful way rather on SB
Like I said this is mostly common sense. I would suggest by reading other threads and what you have written here that your attitude is your biggest problem with the other kiters at your local. you might want to stop being a victim and start being a positive member of your community.