My wife like most females loves Christmas, I'm not going to say I do not enjoy Christmas however I feel that the extractors or money are put on as hard as possible.
I think birthdays are for presents and family holidays are more important.

Question ( this is a poll to see if I am actually a Scrooge, if the answers align I will show it to her. If not I will admit I am a Scrooge)

how much do you or should you spend on each child for presents??